what do they get up to when i'm not there? April 29, 2009 the pics start out cute and capture those big silly grins of theirs...then i knew there would be trouble when i spotted the chalk...how messy does my child look right now?what the hell is she eating???does she even have a home? how can you tell dad dressed her.if you know my husband, you know he makes this face often (i love you honey).finding pics like these on the camera is such a joy for me, but sometimes it can be shocking. just what do they get up to when i'm not there???does this ever happen to you too?